Comments on: Would You Fire You?

By: Links to Live By… - L.I.F.E by Ashley Pichea

Links to Live By… - L.I.F.E by Ashley Pichea — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 22:44:20 +0000

[...] #3 : Would You Fire You? from Zen Family Habits – a good self-check on how I’m doing in my [...]

By: Bila B

Bila B — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 01:10:04 +0000

I did this. I fired myself in one night in November. My un-employed status lasted until morning when my two year old jumped on my bed demanding breakfast. So I wrote a job description allowing myself to improve in one area at a time. I am happy to report 6 weeks of success. My life is still a crazy mess with 3 toddlers, but I am no longer drowning. I can see my kitchen counter every day, there are fewer than three loads of clothes to be washed and this week I took the leap towards more creative interaction with my girls. I unplugged the cable box. Next year I think I may pass my review.

By: heidi @ wonder woman wannabe

heidi @ wonder woman wannabe — Thu, 20 May 2010 03:55:10 +0000

This was great! I loved it so much, I linked to you today!

cheers!
~h

By: Catherine B

Catherine B — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:15:00 +0000

You hit the nail on the head. Staying at home IS hard. Some days I know going to work at a paying would be easier. That thought is gone quickly when I see my kids thriving and learning throughout the day.

It is a fun yet thankless job – thanks for the reminders about how to evaluate my work.

By: Sherri Kruger

Sherri Kruger — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:26:39 +0000

Hi Zengirl,
To be honest there are times when I feel like I’m not doing it. :) I try to focus on what matters, what *really* matters and limiting or eliminating what doesn’t. I’m far from perfect. I fail a million times a day but I keep getting up and I try to be a bit better the next time around.

By: Zengirl @ happy heart and mind

Zengirl @ happy heart and mind — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 23:51:59 +0000

Sherri,

I know this too well, as also being SAHM of 2 kids, preschooler and infant, some days are so tough, some days I feel like quitting it all and other days are all worth it. Taking it one day at the time helps. How are you doing it?

By: Rana

Rana — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:17:43 +0000

Even though you say “Four points that’s it?” In each of those points is a million little things that need to be taken care of. We do what we can do and hope that our family appreciates what we are doing. These are great points and I love how you say Celebrate even if it’s something as simple as “Yes I got the laundry done today”. Sometimes we may want to fire ourselves, but at the end of the day who else is going to do all that we do for our family. We sure can’t quit. I know I don’t want to. Thanks Sherri!

By: Vanessa

Vanessa — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:10:53 +0000

beautiful perspective!

By: Suzannah-Write It Sideways

Suzannah-Write It Sideways — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 21:22:39 +0000

Not only would I fire myself for poor housekeeping, I think my husband would fire me if he could! I have never been good at laundry/dishes/cleaning, but I usually make ends meet. Since having my second child, I know I need to really sit down and get organized. I want to make a list of things to do every day (and a monthly meal planner) so I get a good balance of mommy time, housework, exercise, and writing. I think a little schedule posted on the wall could be immensely helpful.

Thank you, Sherri!

By: Sherri Kruger

Sherri Kruger — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:17:08 +0000

Hi Lindsey I think so many people struggle with the thoughts of being lazy and not good enough as a stay at home parent. I like how you said if you feel good and your spouse feels good at the end of the day then you’re doing a good job! That’s wonderful!

Hi Vina you may not be in the running for head chef any time soon but at least you’re giving it a shot … that’s HUGE! I’m glad you enjoyed this article as well everyone’s feedback so far is very encouraging! Thank you!