10 Special Valentine’s Day Ideas That Don’t Cost a Fortune

Post written by Sherri Kruger. Follow me on Twitter.

Valentine’s Day is only a week away (you’re welcome! :) ). Maybe you’ve noticed by now the TV, radio, and fliers are filled with jewelry store ads aimed at men to “make her feel special”… diamonds are a girl’s best friend and so on.

I can’t speak for all women but I have a feeling I speak for most when I say yeah jewelry is nice but it doesn’t compare to the little things men do to make us feel special.

I wanted to share with you, men and women alike, some Valentine’s day ideas that won’t break your budget but they will certainly make your Valentine feel extra special.

1. Dinner for two. My all time favorite valentine’s day happened a few years ago. My husband and I bought all the ingredients for a really fancy and decedent dinner and made it at home. Since we both love to cook this was fun for both of us. We made an afternoon/evening out of it taking our time to prepare everything down to the rolled napkins and candles on the dinner table. It was fantastic to stay in, drink wine, do something we both love, and then eat this fabulous home cooked meal, for far less than we would have paid had we gone out for a similar dinner.

2. Movie night. Maybe cooking an elaborate dinner isn’t your thing. Maybe this is the one night a year where you both don’t want to cook. Order in your favorite food (pizza, Chinese, Thai etc. ) or pick it up on your way home from work, along with a bottle of wine. Set the mood with a few blankets and cushions on the floor. Fire up the TV or computer and watch your favorite movie or one you both haven’t seen before.

3. Massage. Break out the body oils and lotions, scented candles and soft music and give each other a gentle, relaxing massage. There are few things that feel as good as a back massage when we are tense from a day in front of the computer or a foot massage if you’re on your feet all day.

4. Write a love letter or poem. Who doesn’t like receiving a heart felt letter all about what makes them so great and special? If you don’t know where to start here is some inspiration for you:

  • think about what attracted you to them in the first place.
  • acknowledge the little things they do each day that may, seemingly, go unappreciated.
  • go head to toe describing what you love about each of their features.
  • tell them about the goodness that they bring out in you.
  • take a minute to dream about the future and their role in that life with you.

5. A day of surprises. If your Valentine likes surprises why not make a day of it? Start with their favorite coffee or tea brought to them in bed. Tuck short notes in places you know they’ll search throughout the day. Show up at work and take them for lunch (bonus points for showing up with flowers). Finish the day with number 1, 2, or 3 above and you’ve got a day’s worth of surprises.

6. Do an activity you both love. My husband and I both love photography. One year I made a list of objects to photograph and we set out in the city to capture as many of the items as we could. The distance between items gave us time to talk and it was just so nice walking and taking pictures just the two of us. What common interest do you both share? Do you like the theater? the symphony? pottery? Whatever it is think of a way to incorporate that into your evening.

7. Spa day. Creating a fabulous spa experience at home after a long day at work is my idea of a great night. Light a few candle, draw a warm bubble bath, have soft music playing, a bit of bubbly and a good book … heavenly! When you’re special person is done with the bath, top it off with a massage and maybe even some fresh fruit dipped in chocolate. Yum!

8. Sweets. You don’t have to go all out and get the best, most expensive, largest box of chocolates that you can find. What’s their favorite? It can be as simple as a bar of dark chocolate. Or is it cookies that are more up their alley? Baking a special treat from scratch can really be the way to a person’s heart. Bake their favorite treat, slip it in their lunch bag and pair it with a short note of what you’re plans are for the evening. Anticipation and sugar. Love it!

9. De-stress. If you’ve both been a bit stressed out lately or are under fire from the constant chatter of your darling toddlers, head out to somewhere quiet. I love wandering through book stores and flipping through books and magazines. Choose one with a coffee shop inside and chill over a warm cup of coffee or tea. If you already have a book that’s been gathering dust on your bedside table for months, take it with you to a library and read in silence for a few hours. Love it!

10. Your turn. We all have our own ways of celebrating (or not celebrating) Valentine’s Day.

I would love it if you could share your favorite ways to make someone feel special on Valentine’s day without having to spend a lot of money.

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  1. Miranda says:

    Hi – I’m your newest follower; found you though Life… Your Way.
    These are all great ideas! We are actually having our annual sweethearts supper at our church for valentines day.

  2. Some great ideas here Sherri! My hubby tends to be the more creative, thoughtful one, but I am going to try to glean from your list and see what I can come up with!
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  3. Wendy Irene says:

    These are wonderful ideas! This year I am so excited my husband and I are actually going out on a date just the 2 of us ON Valentine’s day!! V-day was our first date so it is very special to us.

  4. Hi Miranda! Great to have you here! :) What a lovely way to celebrate Valentine’s day! Enjoy.

    Hi Bernice, Please do! I hope I’ve inspired you a bit to give your hubby a great valentine’s day. I hope you have a good one!

    Hi Wendy Irene, Woohoo! Date night on Valentine’s day that’s awesome. I think it will be a while until we’re able to do that :( I hope you have really great evening out.

  5. Marnie says:

    I like a night where we turn everything off (t.v., computers) and talk. We have the most amazing conversations this way! If we don’t do this it seems like there’s no time for listening to each other.

  6. Tommy C says:

    This was really helpful. I have been trying to figure out a way to make her feel special with something new and creative. I plan on giving her a full body massage because I already know she is going to have a long day. Then after I will show her a love poem I wrote and then we can eat something I made for her. I believe she will love it!! Wish me luck everyone! :-)

  7. Well done! that sounds fantastic. Best of luck although it doesn’t sound like you need it! Happy Valentine’s Day! :)

  8. Ashtyn says:

    A creative idea is to incorporate a cute saying with an item that lasts a lifetime. The best idea I used was a Discount Tungsten Ring. These rings last a lifetime and so should your Valentine’s Day message. Be creative with your message and then he will have something to always remember it.

    Just a thought. He still talks about it and it has been over a year.

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  10. Romantic at Heart says:

    This year I didn’t have a lot of money so I went to Kohl’s and found a mans shirt on sale for $9.80. Got a red silk tie (on line for $4.00) and I already have a red pair of high heels. I’ve cut out red hearts and will hang them from the ceiling. My biggest splurge was a bottle of Korbel’s Brut Champagne ($11.90). So for under $25.00 I think the night will be special! At least I’m hoping so!!!!

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